Seeing red for the holidays...
Dec. 14th, 2018 02:56 pm++ Learning about Eliza Dushku's sexual harassment claim against Michael Weatherly while her time on Bull is absolutely horrific, especially knowing the shit she's been through already from the industry. Not only was what he did reprehensible and disgusting, but the fact that CBS attempted to blacklist Eliza by showing "proof" that she was the more unstable one by sending in a tape of her using profanity. I'm glad it backfired on them, though, since what they had was actually evidence of the harassment itself thereby backing up Eliza's claims. But still, they gave her hush money to make her go away with this, and that is just so gross regardless. I always wondered why Eliza's character didn't come back, since it was originally announced she would become a regular recurring character and where things left off it made it seem like there would've been more down the line. I guess now we know the real reason. I mean, CBS is the home of shows like Criminal Minds and NCIS, where both have repeatedly treated their actresses horribly, not to mention that they previously passed on the opportunity for a Nancy Drew reboot because it would've been "too female". So, this goes to further demonstrate their attitudes regarding women, and it just makes me even more angry with what they did to Eliza.
Also, I haven't been watching Bull for some time now, initially not out of disinterest but because I was catching up on other stuff and it kind of got put to the side. But knowing this, alongside the knowledge I just learned that Annabelle Attanasio, who played Cable, my favorite character on the show, wasn't going to return for its current third season (and the manner of which they wrote her off is just, ugh, no), it has made me less inclined to bother catching up.
++ Doctor Who won't be returning until early 2020, which has received some mixed reactions from the fandom, alongside that there is going to be a New Years special instead of the regular Christmas special this year. I, personally, don't mind either. We're still getting a special so it doesn't matter if it's specifically a Christmas one or not. As for S12 not premiering until 2020, I can understand people's frustrations. But at the same time, we currently live in a binge-watching culture and have kinda gotten used to waiting for certain shows to return. Doctor Who has risen in popularity in recent years, especially here in the States, and the possibility of interest losing momentum probably won't happen. So, while the wait sucks, I am not at all bothered by it.
++ Speaking of the holidays, Richard Armitage has narrated yet another audiobook, The Christmas Hirelings, which is now available on Audible for free! You're welcome. ❤
Also, I haven't been watching Bull for some time now, initially not out of disinterest but because I was catching up on other stuff and it kind of got put to the side. But knowing this, alongside the knowledge I just learned that Annabelle Attanasio, who played Cable, my favorite character on the show, wasn't going to return for its current third season (and the manner of which they wrote her off is just, ugh, no), it has made me less inclined to bother catching up.
++ Doctor Who won't be returning until early 2020, which has received some mixed reactions from the fandom, alongside that there is going to be a New Years special instead of the regular Christmas special this year. I, personally, don't mind either. We're still getting a special so it doesn't matter if it's specifically a Christmas one or not. As for S12 not premiering until 2020, I can understand people's frustrations. But at the same time, we currently live in a binge-watching culture and have kinda gotten used to waiting for certain shows to return. Doctor Who has risen in popularity in recent years, especially here in the States, and the possibility of interest losing momentum probably won't happen. So, while the wait sucks, I am not at all bothered by it.
++ Speaking of the holidays, Richard Armitage has narrated yet another audiobook, The Christmas Hirelings, which is now available on Audible for free! You're welcome. ❤
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Date: 2018-12-15 06:28 pm (UTC)I just feel so sad for Eliza. :( I just want her to go out there and be successful and do something that makes her happy in a safe environment.
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Date: 2018-12-15 08:40 pm (UTC)Mm, I read about that in the link. I didn't know that, but it's not surprising. I don't understand why men in their thirties would even *consider* dating someone in their teens, but I guess majority of the times it's for power reasons. I mean, I'm simplifying it, but yeah. (i have feelings abt this bc some 37 yo dude is dating my 18 yo cousin, and it makes my skin crawl >.<) (and it's not the age difference per se that's upsetting - lots of people date people older than them; it's just that it feels like people take advantage, when the younger person is still young, even if they are technically an adult. idk. i'm not gonna go on, i just wanted to clarify ^^)
I wish for the day when men - and abusers in general - won't get off with just a slap on the wrist. It's so infuriating.
Same. She deserves all the good things and all the happiness.
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Date: 2018-12-16 04:36 am (UTC)Yep, even if they are caught their punishments don't seem to be as severe as they should be. Some do, but the majority of the time they don't which is unfortunate. Meanwhile, women are constantly considered "gold diggers" and making "false accusations" even when they have solid evidence supporting their claims.
it's just that it feels like people take advantage, when the younger person is still young, even if they are technically an adult. idk. i'm not gonna go on, i just wanted to clarify ^^
I understand what you're saying. I don't mind age differences as long as the individuals are far along into their adulthood and are able to be equals in that partnership. But when you have a man in his early thirties being romantically interested in someone barely out of their teens, it's 100% a red flag for numerous reasons. It's predatory, first and foremost, because even if she is "of age" the fact that men prey on young girls like that and wait until she's 18 or something like that is so inherently gross. They do this because girls who are younger are inexperienced and don't understand the world yet, while women their own age can call out their bullshit. It's why you see older men grooming younger women a lot to believe this shit, they are legitimately taking advantage of them and it's reprehensible.
And I know Jessica Alba herself came forward some years ago about what happened and she didn't understand why she did what she did at that time, she was still very young and didn't understand the implications of not only dating someone twelve years older than her but also quickly to get engaged. He was the adult here and he should've known better.
Same as how he should've known better in this situation.
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